X Y Z…BOOM!

There seems to be a never-ending appetite for generational conflicts in our society. We go so far as to give entire generations labels. Which only makes it easier to draw battle lines.

The foretold design goes as follows: the older generation doesn’t understand, and the younger generation doesn’t listen. X’s think Boomers don’t get it, and everyone thinks Millennials don’t get it. Lately, I have caught myself giving in to stereotypes. Loud music can sound like noise, and foul language bothers me more than it used to. Used to is the key term here. Growing older is inevitable, but forgetting where you came from is a choice. There are endless quippy sayings about remaining present in your life and even more about the dangers of the past. When it comes to life, embrace time travel. Remain present, but stay in touch with the young person you once were. Don’t dwell on the past, but don’t push it away either. These personal habits help our social flexibility when it comes to interacting with people of different ages and backgrounds.

When you engage in a conversation with someone, notice their age, and instead of ignoring it or, worst of all, judging it, embrace it. We are a product of our experiences, so remember that someone born in 1955 had different experiences than someone born in 1985. When interacting with people, give them their generation; it will allow the dialogue to move more freely. Think about this: if you are 35 years old and speak with a 20-year-old at seven, they had an iPhone in their hands, and at seven, you had an etch-a-sketch.